So after starting world war 3 with my mother I do not know how to proceed. I told her what she did and not only was there no apology she didn't even see how she is in the wrong. If this was base ball she would have not only struck out by ended the inning.... I just cannot find the energy to keep dealing with needy people, but it is my mother. But I don't think that should give her the immunity to be a selfish bitch indefinatly....
So my birthday was yesterday....and I think next year I will just skip it...the one day a year that is supposed to be 'my day' and people try to make me feel guilty about things and make the day about themselves insted of the person who is having the birthday...now I am not trying to be selfish because I do not like attention and being the center of a party....but next year just leave me the fuck alone